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Scout takes a break from the pool

I’ve been asked a lot lately, “How’s the training going?”

And I respond, “It’s going well.”

But I’m not talking about the training you may be asking about. Yes, we still plan on Scout being Harris’ Therapy Dog and Yes there are plans to train her, with a certificate and everything, in that capacity. What Scout has needed to learn first though, is how to be a Proper Dog. She has needed to learn “come” and “sit” and “stay”. She has needed to learn “shhh” and “leave it” and “down”. All those lovely commands doggies should know if they want to get on well in the bipedal human world. After all, cuteness will only take her so far.

So, her summer was spent doing just that. She can be a little rough (no pun intended) around the edges when it is not Her Boy commanding her and still prefers treats as opposed to pats on the head as her reward, but as long as rabbits and squirrels are vacated from the area she will be focused and try hard. It is clear that whatever else is in her DNA, she is a Terrier, and is rather independent minded. She likes a good reason for things and gets bored with repetition. But aren’t we all that way?

Scout is definitely living up to her namesake. No pink collars or poodle skirts for this girl. She is an avid rabbit-hunter, puddle stomper, cat chaser and pool swimmer. She dotes on Harris, whining when he leaves for school in the morning and beside herself with joy when he returns.

Two weeks ago our church had a family service where we were all asked to finish the sentence, “I knew God loved me . . . ”

Harris wrote: “I knew God loved me when He gave me Scout”.

We will continue with training and certification and making Scout a “Good Dog”, but frankly, watching my laughing, beaming social son, I know we’ve already accomplished our goals.

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That’s the big question. Here we have this doggie who needs to experience a ton of environments, scenarios, people, etc. to pass training and become a certified therapy dog, but until she is a Certified Therapy Dog we have no legal muscle to gain access to these environments, scenarios and people. It’s a monster Catch 22. But I understand it. When is the adorable pup a real service dog in training and when is it an excuse for the owner to drag Precious into a nail salon? I’m the first to say I don’t want to experience Barking Dog Solo during my Dinner Out conversation and I definitely don’t want to worry about poop piles at the mall.

People shouldn’t be allowed to take their dogs anywhere because people are dopes. Watch how they let their kids act in a movie theater. Why would they take any more responsibility for the behavior of their pets? That’s why I can’t blame the staff at The Oread when they cocked an eyebrow at my mumbled “she’s a therapy dog in training” lame excuse. They let me slide and come on in with her, but I knew, deep in their hearts, they were saying “Pull the other one. Its got bells on it.”

But I am a responsible owner and Scout is not a Purse Dog, she is, or will be, a Therapy Dog. With The Oread experience fresh in my head, I knew she would have to start looking like one. I went to WireDog. They’ve got everything and in the mini sizes we needed. We chose a “breathable, yet attractive,” mesh vest with “accompanying service designation.” Love It! Appropriately, WireDog warned us that you can’t claim your dog is a Service Animal without it actually being a Service Animal. Understood! We’re not claiming anything we aren’t doing. I could have added the “In Training” tag, but Scout is only so big. Where would it go?

I must say, the Vest is a bit magical – walk it up to any door and the door opens. Just so you know I’m not taking advantage, I always let the business know that we are ‘In Training.’ They can kick us out, but, so far, nobody has. What I’ve gotten is reactions like the guy at KU Edwards coffee shop. He said, “We all have to learn sometime. And she’s soooo cute!”

Who has made my life easy? Who has helped train a Therapy Dog? Who is Covered in Awesome in the KC Metro Area?
Free State Social – Especially Whitney Mathews and Ben Smith! they took the first chance on us and let Scout attend their Social Media Conference. (more in another post)
LaMar’s Donuts – Good donuts and great staff.
KU Edwards Campus – They totally get the need to train and welcomed Scout back anytime!
Prairie Star Elementary School – PSE was Harris’s first school here in Kansasand they’re still helping him! If Scout is going to go to class with Harris, she needs school time. PSE has been invaluable. Scout has visited multiple classes and the library.
Rob Sight Ford Dealership – She made many friends so they’ll probably make a sale, someday soon I hope.
Christ Church Anglican – All are Indeed, Welcome! She helped teach Sunday School. Matt 25:40 “I tell you the truth. Whatever you did for the least of these, you did for me.”

Thanks KC Metro! Watch for us. We’re out there (in training).

FYI: I always carry a bag stuffed with Nature’s Miracle, poop bags, paper towels, water, treats and toys (so glad we haven’t needed it).

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A Day in the Sun

April 11, 2010

I mentioned in a previous post (The Boy Who Doesn’t Run) how much Harris dislikes “outdoor activities”. Yard work isn’t a big hit either, although that’s got nothing to do with Asperger’s and everything to do with being a kid. Last weekend was rather nice. We’ve had a long, cold, wet and snowy winter and [...]

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The Bond Strengthens

April 8, 2010

I’ve been worried that Scout will connect with me more than Harris. Our Airedale, Ensign, doggedly follows me about the house.  (To know the meaning of doggedly watch our daily routine.) It seems he’s afraid I’ll go off without him and eat garbage or sniff dog butts. Silly Airedale. He dearly loves the entire family, [...]

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The Boy Who Doesn’t Run

April 5, 2010

Harris hates to run. And he doesn’t like sports – of any kind. When Harris was in second grade we pretty much gave up on pushing baseball, soccer, or tennis. Nobody was having any fun. It worried Kevin and me that Harris didn’t like to be outside, that he didn’t like to be active. We’re [...]

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We all say “Hi”.

April 2, 2010

Scout has joined the family. All the human components were immediately taken by her friendly nature and adorable face. This is why God made puppies so puppy-like. How could any feeling human put something so adorable in a sack with a brick? Thus puppies survive. She met Ensign, the resident Airedale, out on the front [...]

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Her Name is Scout

April 1, 2010

We, the Bailey family, are getting a dog. Why, you ask? Good question. We already have a dog. And a cat. And 2 hamsters. And a gerbil. But we are getting a dog, a second dog, and expanding the brood at Casa de Bailey. A dear friend, Dan Schwabauer, intrepid creator of the One Year [...]

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